Imfundo Yezinkinga kanye Nokuthuthukiswa Kwe-Adversity Quotient (AQ): "I-Whetstone" Ekukhuleni Kwengane
Emphakathini wanamuhla oshintsha ngokushesha, ukuba ne-IQ noma i-EQ ephezulu akusanele ukuthi izingane zikwazi ukubhekana nezinselele zesikhathi esizayo ngokuqiniseka. Isilinganiso Sezinkinga (AQ), eyasungulwa nguDkt. Paul Stoltz, elinganisa ikhono lomuntu lokubhekana nezinkinga, ubunzima, ukwehluleka, nokucindezeleka, nokululama ebunzimeni, iya ngokuya iba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukunikeza izingane imfundo efanele yobunzima kanye nokuthuthukisa i-AQ yazo kungenye yezipho ezibaluleke kakhulu abazali abangazinikeza ekukhuleni kwengane yabo.
Iyini i-Adversity Education kanye ne-AQ?
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Imfundo Yezinkinga: Lokhu akusho ukudala ubunzima ngamabomu. Kunalokho, kubhekisela kubazali abakha amathuba ngamabomu ngesikhathi intuthuko yengane ukuze babhekane nokwehluleka okulinganiselwe, ubunzima, noma ukudumazeka, bese bebaqondisa ukuthi baqonde futhi babhekane nalezi zithiyo ngokufanele. Ingqikithi yayo itholakala "isiqondiso" kunokuba "ukuyekelela."
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Isilinganiso Sezinkinga (AQ)Njengoba kuphakanyiswe nguDkt. Paul Stoltz, i-AQ ilinganisa ukuqina kwengqondo komuntu lapho ebhekene nobunzima. Abantu abane-AQ ephezulu banamathuba amancane okuyeka lapho bebhekene nobunzima, bafuna ngenkuthalo izixazululo, futhi ufunde ekuhlulekeni, ekugcineni ube namandla. I-AQ ihlanganisa umbono womuntu ngalokho Ukulawula, Ubunikazi (indlela abaveza ngayo umthwalo wemfanelo), Finyelela (ukuthi ubunzima buthinta kangakanani impilo yabo), kanye Ukukhuthazela (ubunzima buzohlala isikhathi esingakanani).
Kungani Imfundo Yezinkinga kanye Nokuthuthukiswa Kwe-AQ Kubaluleke Kangaka?
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Thuthukisa Ukuqina Kokucindezeleka: Umphakathi wanamuhla unokuncintisana okukhulu, futhi izingane zizobhekana nezingcindezi ezahlukahlukene esikhathini esizayo. Ukubhekana nezingqinamba ezilinganiselwe kusukela zisencane kubasiza kancane kancane bakhe ukuqina kwengqondo, bafunde ukulawula ukucindezeleka, kunokuba banqotshwe yikho.
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Hlakulela Amakhono Okuxazulula Izinkinga: Ezindaweni ezibushelelezi, izingane zingase zingabi naso isisusa sokucabanga ngokuzimela nokuxazulula izinkinga. Ubunzima buyaziphoqa ukuba zicabange ngobuhlakani futhi zifune izindlela ezahlukene zokuxazulula izinselele.
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Thuthukisa Ukuzethemba Nokusebenza Kahle: Uma izingane zinqoba ubunzima ngemizamo yazo, zizwa umuzwa omkhulu wokufeza okuthile. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kunempumelelo enikezwa ngqo ngabazali futhi kuthuthukisa ngempela ukuzethemba kwazo kanye nokusebenza kahle kwazo.
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Funda Ukuphathwa Kwemizwa: Lapho bebhekene nezithiyo, izingane ziba nemizwa engemihle njengokudumala, ukukhungatheka, nentukuthelo. Isiqondiso sabazali singazisiza ziqaphele le mizwa futhi zifunde izindlela ezinempilo zokuveza imizwa kanye nokulawula.
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Thuthukisa Umthwalo Wemfanelo Nokuziphendulela: Qondisa izingane ukuthi ziqonde ukuthi izithiyo ziyingxenye yokukhula, futhi zithathe umthwalo wemfanelo ngezinqumo nezenzo zazo, kunokuba zihlale zisola abanye noma izimo zangaphandle.
Ungayiqhuba Kanjani Imfundo Yobunzima Ephumelelayo kanye Nokuthuthukiswa Kwe-AQ Kwezingane?
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Vumela Izingane Zibhekane Nezinkinga Ezilinganiselwe: Gwema ukuvikela izingane ngokweqile nokuzenzela konke. Isibonelo, zivumele zibophe izintambo zezicathulo zazo noma ngabe kuthatha isikhathi eside, zivumele zilungise amathoyizi azo noma ngabe azikwenzi kahle, futhi uzivumele zihlulwe emidlalweni.
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Yiba "Isitsha Esithinta Imizwa" kanye "Nesibuko": Uma ingane ithukuthele ngenxa yokuphazamiseka, qala ulalele bese wamukela imizwa yayo: "Ngiyazi ukuthi uthukuthele/uthukuthele njengamanje." Ungasheshi ukuphika noma ukufundisa. Bese, msize abone futhi asho imizwa yakhe.
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Umhlahlandlela Esikhundleni Sokuxazulula Ngokuqondile: Uma ingane ibhekene nobunzima, qala ngokubuza: "Luhlobo luni losizo oludingayo?" noma "Ucabanga ukuthi ungaluxazulula kanjani lolu daba?" kunokuba unikeze impendulo ngokushesha. Unganikeza amacebiso, kodwa ushiyele ingane ithuba lokucabanga.
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Gcizelela Umzamo kanye Nenqubo: Khuthaza isibindi sengane ekubhekaneni nezinselele kanye nomzamo eziwenzayo, kunokugxila emphumeleni kuphela. Isibonelo: "Ngisho noma ungaphumelelanga, uzame izindlela ezahlukene, lokho kuhle kakhulu!" Lokhu kukhuthaza ukucabanga kokukhula ezinganeni.
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Siza Izingane Zilungise Isitayela Sazo Sokubhekisela: Qondisa izingane ukuthi zihlaziye izizathu zokwehluleka ngobuqotho. Gwema ukuzivumela ukuthi zibeke konke ukwehluleka ngenxa yokuntula kwazo ikhono, futhi ugweme nokusunduza wonke umthwalo wemfanelo ezintweni zangaphandle. Zifundise ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwezinto ezingalawuleki nezingenakulawuleka.
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Yabelana Ngokuhlangenwe Nakho Nobunzima: Hola ngesibonelo ngokwabelana ngokukhululekile ngobunzima oye wabhekana nabo nokuthi ubunqobe kanjani. Lokhu kungenza izingane zizizwe zixhumene futhi zifunde amasu okubhekana nezinkinga.
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Dala Imidlalo Nemisebenzi Eyinselele: Khetha imidlalo noma imisebenzi edinga umzamo wengane ukuze iyiqede, njengephazili eyinkimbinkimbi, izigigaba zangaphandle, noma amakhono ezemidlalo adinga imizamo eminingi ukuze iphumelele.
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Hlakulela Umoya Wokuba Nethemba: Khuthaza izingane ukuba zibone uhlangothi oluhle lwezinto, ngisho nasebunzimeni, futhi zifune ithemba namathuba.
Ubunzima buyingxenye evamile yokuphila, futhi i-AQ iyikhono elibalulekile lokubhekana nezivunguvungu. Ngokusebenzisa imfundo yobunzima obuhlelekile, abazali bangasiza izingane ziguqule “amatshe abukhali” empilweni zibe amathuluzi okulola ukuqina kwazo, zibahlomise ngesibindi nokuhlakanipha kokubhekana nekusasa futhi zikwazi ukugibela amagagasi.