Izindaba

Ubuntwana buyisikhathi esidlulayo nesimangalisayo, futhi izindawo zokudlala zivame ukuba yisigaba lapho ezinye zezinkumbulo zethu zakuqala eziyigugu zenziwa khona. Ngaphezu nje kwezakhiwo zepulasitiki nensimbi, indawo yokudlala enhle ngempela iyindawo yokucabanga, indawo yokuqalisa i-adventure, kanye nobufakazi obuthule bezikhathi ezingenakubalwa zenjabulo, ukutholakala, kanye nobungane.

Uma isimo sezulu sase-Atlanta singahambisani, noma umane ufuna uhambo oluhle lwangaphakathi lwezingane zakho, leli dolobha eliphilayo linezinhlobonhlobo ezinhle kakhulu izindawo zokudlala zangaphakathi ongakhetha kuzo. Lezi zindawo zinikeza indawo ephephile, evuselelayo, nejabulisayo yokuthi izingane zisebenzise amandla azo, zifake imicabango yazo, futhi zithuthukise amakhono abalulekile okuxhumana nabantu nawomzimba.

Ezweni lanamuhla elisheshayo, ukunikeza izingane indawo yokudlala ephephile, ejabulisayo, nefundisayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Ipaki yokudlala yangaphakathi ethambile enesihloko solwandle iyindawo efanelekile impela, iletha umhlaba ongaqondakali wolwandle ngaphakathi ukuze kudalwe ipharadesi elithambile eligcwele izimangaliso kanye nokuzijabulisa kwezingane.

Ukwakheka kobunikazi kuyinqubo eqhubekayo, eqhubekayo impilo yonke, kodwa izitayela ezithile zentuthuko zivelele njengezifinyezo ezibalulekile zalolu hambo. Akuyona into eyenzeka ngokuzumayo, kodwa ukuvela okuqhubekayo, okuvelele kakhulu ngesikhathi sobusha kanye nokukhula kwasekuqaleni.

Ngesikhathi esibucayi sokukhula nokukhula kwengane, ubuthongo obanele nobusezingeni eliphezulu kanye ukudla okunempilo nokulinganiselayo yizona zisekelo ezimbili eziyisisekelo ezisekela intuthuko yazo ephelele yomzimba, yokuqonda, kanye neyomzwelo. Lezi zici ezimbili ziyaxhomekeka, zakha ndawonye ikusasa elinempilo lengane.

Nakuba iSaudi Arabia yaziwa kabanzi ngezindawo zayo ezinkulu zasehlane, ibone nentuthuko enkulu embonini yayo yezokuzijabulisa eminyakeni yamuva nje. Ukuze inikeze imisebenzi epholile nejabulisayo esimweni sezulu esishisayo, kunezindawo eziningi ezisezingeni lomhlaba. izindawo zokudlala zangaphakathi sezivele kulo lonke uMbuso.

Emphakathini wanamuhla oshintsha ngokushesha, ukuba ne-IQ noma i-EQ ephezulu akusanele ukuthi izingane zikwazi ukubhekana nezinselele zesikhathi esizayo ngokuqiniseka.

Ukudlala komzali nomntwana kungaphezu nje kokuzilibazisa; kuyindlela yemvelo nephumelelayo kakhulu yokuthi abazali nezingane bakhe ukuxhumana okujulile futhi bakhuthaze intuthuko ephelele. Ngokudlala, izingane zifunda, zihlole, futhi ziveze imizwa yazo, kuyilapho abazali bethola ukuqonda okungcono ngezingane zabo futhi beziqondisa ekukhuleni kwazo okunempilo. Ukudlala komzali nomntwana okusezingeni eliphezulu kuyingcebo eyigugu ekhulisa ingqondo nomzimba wengane futhi yakhe isimo somndeni esivumelanayo.

Ukukhula ngokomzwelo kwengane kuyinqubo eyinkimbinkimbi neguquguqukayo, ehlanganisa ikhono lokubona, ukuqonda, nokuphatha imizwa yayo, kanye nokuqonda imizwa yabanye nokusabela ngendlela efanele. Lokhu akusona nje isisekelo sempilo yabo yengqondo kodwa futhi kubalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwano obuhle, ukuzivumelanisa nokuphila komphakathi, kanye nokuhlakulela uzwela.