Te Ahiahi o ngā Papa Whakangahau Tuku Iho? Te Whakatere i te Wehewehenga o te Mākete

I ngā tau tata nei, kua tupu te mākete whakangahau a ngā mātua-tamaiti, me ngā momo ngā pāka whakangahau e puea ake ana me he harore. Heoi, i muri i tēnei tirohanga e ahua angitu ana, kei te puta puku mai tētahi ia e kore e taea te whakakorekore: kei te kaha haere te wehewehenga o te mākete o ngā papa whakangahau. Ko ngā papa e auaha tonu ana, e whakapai ake ana i ā rātou wheako, e whakapai ake ana i ā rātou ratonga, e kukume ana i te rerenga tonu o ngā kiritaki, ā, e pai ana ki te pakihi puāwai; i tētahi atu taha, ko te hunga e noho tonu ana i roto i te tauira tuku iho, kāore he āhuatanga ahurei, ā, e pāngia ana e te ōritetanga, e tūtaki ana ki te raruraru o te ngaronga o ngā kiritaki me te hekenga o te moni whiwhi, me te mea nei kei te anga atu ki te whakakorenga atu i te mākete.

Ehara tēnei wehewehenga i te mea tūpono noa iho, engari he hua e kore e taea te karo i te whanaketanga o te mākete. I ēnei rā, kei roto tātou i te mākete kua ki tonu, ā, kei te haria e ngā mātua ā rātou tamariki ki ngā papa whakangahau maha atu, e whakawhānui ana i ō rātou tirohanga me te whakapiki ake i ō rātou tumanakohanga. Kua ngaro kē te wā i taea ai e te whakatū noa i ētahi whare whakangahau te kukume i ngā kiritaki. Inaianei ka nui ake te aro o ngā mātua ki te takaro, ki te haumaru, ki te whakamarie o te taiao, me te uara tāpiri ka taea e te papa te tuku. Ko ngā papa whakangahau tuku iho kāore i te auaha, he tawhito ngā whare, ā, he kino te ratonga e whakarato ana, he mea noa iho ki ngā kanohi o ngā kaihoko matatau, ā, e uaua ana ki te whiwhi i tā rātou manako.

Ko te kore e taea te tākaro te tino raruraru mō ngā papa whakangahau tuku iho. I te putanga mai o ngā papa kaupapa hou, ngā pokapū wheako whakangahau mātauranga, me ngā papa taunekeneke hangarau matatau, ko ngā papa tuku iho e whakawhirinaki tonu ana ki ngā taputapu tawhito me te tākaro kotahi ka ahua hoha, kāore hoki e pai. He mutunga kore te hiahia me te hiahia o ngā tamariki ki te tūhura; e hiahia ana rātou ki ngā wheako hou, whakahihiri, me te ngahau. Ki te kore e taea e te papa te whakatutuki i ā rātou hiahia, ka tahuri noa rātou ki ētahi atu kōwhiringa e ātaahua ake ana.

He mea nui ake, i te wā e whiriwhiri ana i tētahi pāka whakangahau tamariki I ēnei rā, kāore ngā mātua e aro noa ki te wheako tākaro a ā rātou tamariki, engari ka aro nui atu ki te "taumata" me te "kounga" o te pāka. Ko tā rātou e tumanako ana kia whakaratohia he taiao haumaru, he taiao akuaku, he taiao whakamarie hoki mō ā rātou tamariki, ā, e tumanako ana hoki rātou kia whiwhi i te whakaute tika me te ratonga kounga teitei i te wā e pau ana te kai. Ko ngā pāka whakangahau tuku iho me ngā taiao paru, pōrearea, me ngā waiaro ratonga kino, kāore e kore ka waiho he whakaaro kino ki ngā mātua, ka meinga rātou kia karo i aua wāhi.

Ki te kore ngā kaihoko e makona, kāore rātou e hoko kāri mema. He puna nui ngā kāri mema mō ngā moni whiwhi pumau mō ngā papa whakangahau, ā, he mea nui hoki ki te pupuri i ngā whanaungatanga ki ngā kaihoko. Ki te kore e taea e te papa te whakarato i tētahi wheako me te uara e tino ataahua ana, kāore ngā mātua e pai ki te utu i mua mō ngā kāri mema. Ki te kore he reiti hoko kāri mema pumau, ka tino pāngia te moni whiwhi a te papa, ā, i te wā roa, ka kore e pumau, ā, ka mutu ka ngaro atu i te mākete.

I te aroaro o ngā āhuatanga uaua o ngā papa whakangahau tuku iho, he mea tino nui te rapu i te huringa me te mahi tahi. I roto i te whakataetae nui o te mākete, he uaua ki te wawahi i ngā arai mā te mahi takitahi. He mea nui te whiriwhiri i tētahi hoa mahi he wheako angitu, he tauira hua ahurei hoki, mō te whakawhiti me te whakapai ake i ngā papa whakangahau tuku iho.

Kua tino mōhio mātou ki tēnei āhuatanga uaua o te mākete, ā, neke atu i te rua mano ngā pāka whakangahau kua whakatūria angitu i roto i ngā tāone nui puta noa i te motu, kua kohia e mātou he wheako whakahaere nui me te tauira hua ahurei. Ehara i te mea tūpono noa te take e taea ai e ā mātou pāka whakangahau te whiwhi moni pai i roto i ngā wāhi rerekē. E tino mārama ana mātou kāore e ranea te whakarato noa i ngā whare whakangahau. He pūnaha hua katoa tā mātou hei āwhina i ngā pāka whakangahau kia tū motuhake i roto i te whakataetae nui o te mākete.

He mea nui ake, e mārama ana mātou ko te kore wheako te arai nui mō ngā kaiwhakahaere o ngā papa whakangahau. Nō reira, kua whakaritea e mātou he rōpū kaiārahi ngaio me te neke atu i te tekau tau o te wheako whakahaere papa whakangahau hei whakarato i te tautoko whānui, āhua-kaitiaki ki ngā hoa mahi. Mai i te rangahau mākete tuatahi me te aromatawai i te kōwhiringa wāhi ki te whakangungu kaiwhakahaere toa, te whakahaere kaimahi, me te whakamahere kaupapa me te whakatairanga hokohoko i muri mai, ka whakaratohia e mātou he aratohu me te tautoko taahiraa-i-te-taahiraa. Ahakoa he "tauhou" koe i roto i te umanga papa whakangahau, ka taea e koe te tīmata ngāwari me te tere whiwhi hua me tā mātou āwhina.

Mā te whiriwhiri i a mātou, kāore koe e manukanuka ki te whakahaere mahi uaua, kāore hoki e manukanuka ki te whakapiki i te moni whiwhi. Ka whakaratohia e mātou he otinga kotahi-mutunga ki a koe, kia ngāwari ai te pupuri i tētahi papa whakangahau pumau, e whanake tonu ana, me te moni whiwhi pai. I roto i te mākete papa whakangahau wehewehe o ēnei rā, ko te whiriwhiri ki te mahi tahi me mātou te mea pai rawa atu mō ngā papa whakangahau tuku iho kia pakaru, kia ora ai. Engari i te uaua i roto i te moana whero ōrite, he aha e kore ai e whakamahi i tā mātou tauira pakeke me te tīma ngaio ki te waihanga i tō ake moana kikorangi? Kāore ngā papa whakangahau tuku iho i whakaritea kia whakakorea; ko te mea nui kei te kitea e rātou te huarahi tika, te whiriwhiri i te hoa tika, me te whakatutuki i te whakapai ake me te auahatanga whānui.